After a long time of not wanting to comment about the homosexuality business, I think finally there is something to say.
I have sat down and watched some of my friends taking that route, and that has been eating me up slowly.
I just cant shut up anymore, while deep down I feel something is messed up somewhere.
Of late it has been like a trend, almost every little pretty girl in town has a girlfriend or "boyfriend" maybe that is what I should say.
It is heartbreaking because of the reasons they give. Most of this girls have been sexually molested before. This is either by total strangers, family members they respected, respectable members of the society or even their then boyfriends.
I understand the fact that this experiences are hurtful and the victim is the only one who knows how it feels. But u know what, life will always be full of challenges and if we always base our decisions on the bitterness we feel then we are a doomed generation.
Most of the times I wonder why in a Lesbian relationship there always has to be one who has her physical appearance like that of a man. So that would be he man in the relationship or something, right ??
In my opinion this generation has issues with forgiveness, self esteem and creativity. For me u don't have to be friends with everyone who wronged you, but make peace with you past, yourself and God.
You don't have to find approval from anyone for being a woman apart from God and yourself. Learn to appreciate yourself always, and when you are showered with compliments it will be easy and normal.
Be as creative as you wish but do not try to alter nature, for nature is very UNFORGIVING you will never be fulfilled.
In a sexual relationship both man and woman are equally important. For me this is why some homosexuals have a rough time trying to mimic the opposite gender.
You can not find a man in a woman or a woman in a man because what makes people the gender they are is far beyond their physical characteristics. You can not be a man by merely looking like one or acting like one. The same way some one else cannot be your mother just because you hate your mother.
If we knew nature could not be altered without consequences, and I mean serious ones. We would be sober enough to make decisions.
But that's the other problem, this generation is barely sober.
If I may ask you, when you want a professional service, would you go to the service provider or try to make a service of your own?
I have sat down and watched some of my friends taking that route, and that has been eating me up slowly.
I just cant shut up anymore, while deep down I feel something is messed up somewhere.
Of late it has been like a trend, almost every little pretty girl in town has a girlfriend or "boyfriend" maybe that is what I should say.
It is heartbreaking because of the reasons they give. Most of this girls have been sexually molested before. This is either by total strangers, family members they respected, respectable members of the society or even their then boyfriends.
I understand the fact that this experiences are hurtful and the victim is the only one who knows how it feels. But u know what, life will always be full of challenges and if we always base our decisions on the bitterness we feel then we are a doomed generation.
Most of the times I wonder why in a Lesbian relationship there always has to be one who has her physical appearance like that of a man. So that would be he man in the relationship or something, right ??
In my opinion this generation has issues with forgiveness, self esteem and creativity. For me u don't have to be friends with everyone who wronged you, but make peace with you past, yourself and God.
You don't have to find approval from anyone for being a woman apart from God and yourself. Learn to appreciate yourself always, and when you are showered with compliments it will be easy and normal.
Be as creative as you wish but do not try to alter nature, for nature is very UNFORGIVING you will never be fulfilled.
In a sexual relationship both man and woman are equally important. For me this is why some homosexuals have a rough time trying to mimic the opposite gender.
You can not find a man in a woman or a woman in a man because what makes people the gender they are is far beyond their physical characteristics. You can not be a man by merely looking like one or acting like one. The same way some one else cannot be your mother just because you hate your mother.
If we knew nature could not be altered without consequences, and I mean serious ones. We would be sober enough to make decisions.
But that's the other problem, this generation is barely sober.
If I may ask you, when you want a professional service, would you go to the service provider or try to make a service of your own?
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